Just don't make a wrong perception of the title. I will just let you make a broad thinking about the title and this blog content. This was made when I was very full after getting "real" dinner with a friend of mine. Our trip was just reminded me about several thinkings that already came to my mind few days ago.
Sometimes we just tell friends, particularly when they're in such kind of any problematic situation. Whether it's about love, life, money earn, etc related to their personal sometimes people need to share. However, as the one to be shared, we also need to share, since it is human that we need to communicate humanly, talking about living. As a good hearer, or particularly what is so called good friend, we are expectedly to give kinda good advice for betterment. Perhaps, later on, if we succeeded in giving advice, our troubled friend may be able to think broader and more calm to face their problems.
Actually, as a human being, we should consider that LIFE IS NEVER FLAT!! Whether you agree or not, I will always believe in that matter. If it's just flat, there will be no color in life as we could see on a rainbow, those make life beautiful. In accordance to that matter, some advice from another one are just necessary. Nevertheless, the ONE who is able to be wise, giving GOOD ADVICE and SUGGESTION is NOT the ONE who is able to APPLY it in life whenever they're trapped in the same situation. That could not be called "MUNAFIK" or "HYPOCRITE". It is a matter of different point of view.
I do believe that a person has their own limit. It is more likely affected by their mood, condition, and feeling. Thus, when later that wise person was caught by that problem, he/she might not be able to stand on their own thinking formerly which was beneficial to friends. Kinda dilemma, although it happens in my real life. When we're facing any troubles, we hardly think which is the best way to solve the problem. We need any other perception and point of view from, of course the one we trust in, thus make us think more obviously.
Somehow, me, myself do the same thing that I was failed in doing my best effort. I was making failure and big mistake that made me feel so embarrassed. Later, I realized that I should not just give in and doing nothing after all. There are still any other life's role play, love, and living to live up. I do believe that my beloved family, lovely besties, dearest friends, and even envy enemy will always color my life. Thank you for the memories that we've been through..hopefully there will be another different story in our life.
..Je vous aime mes amis..
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