"..every girl will marry her father..."
I read it this morning on the status of a best friend of mine. It may sound crazy but it is! I do agree with that.
It's not about a such thing like "incest", but a tendency. It came from her daily experiences that she lives in a family which consists of a mother, father and siblings (or there are probably some others). Once, she found it happy, hilarious, and joyful living in that family, a girl tends to keep it until she has her own family.
If a girl thinks that her mother's way of growing children up was smart and lovely, she will go with it as well. Also, when a girl sees that her father is a great man to live with, I bet she will look for another man alike for her future.
Nonetheless, in some cases, it makes sense that a girl will try to find a man who has a different characteristic to her father. It is probably not the whole character, but none's gonna fall into the same hole. We obviously look for a betterment.
The same way comes with the man. I found an article that instead of her personality or appeals, one of many factors that a man loves a girl is that she seems like his mother. I asked to my friends as well, he finds it more enjoyable to be with a girl who has a sense of his mother.
Well, those are my point of view. And, indeed, it depends on yours. Do you wanna "marry with" your "mother" or your "father"??
Love ♥♥
Kasih yang ada dalam diri manusia berelasi dalam komunitas yang lain, namun ada kalanya seorang manusia yang berada dalam komunitasnya merasa kesepian. Komunitas yang majemuk melahirkan perasaan khusus bagi manusia untuk mencari pribadi yang paling sesuai dengan dirinya.
ReplyDeletedan kecenderungan mencari pribadi yg paling sesuai itu bisa muncul dr org2 yang paling dekat dgn kita, family.. ^^
ReplyDeletekakak Ridho pilih yg kyk ibu yaa??hihihi... :D